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5 Things To Do For Date Night In Taipei

Even if Taipei doesn’t have the most romantic sunsets or breathtaking coastline views like Taitung (on Taiwan’s East Coast), there are still plenty of quaint scenarios you can insert yourself into that mimics a cheesy Taiwanese rom-drama.

Below are my 5 Taipei suggestions for a first date or date night with your partner. 

1) [EAT]
Xiangse 香色 (https://www.facebook.com/xiangse/)

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There are places you go for food and then there are places you go for atmosphere. Xiang Se is of the latter. This place is undeniably one of the most spectacularly art directed restaurants in Taipei. Every detail is thoughtful and every sprig of lavender is acceptably cliché.

I went with LC before she went off to London and she had made the reservation, which is highly recommended. If I remember correctly, we had something like a NT$550 minimum/person for dinner. It was an amount where we were forced to order drinks on the side since our food order didn’t reach that amount.

If you walked by Xiang Se, you wouldn’t even know it existed. The restaurant is encased inside a courtyard. The cement exterior is high enough that you can’t see into it and that you’d think it’s residential housing with a private yard. (Plus, the top few floors of this place was draped in tarp for construction or tear down when we went.)

The door for Xiang Se is on the side of the building. You must ring a unsuspecting doorbell for someone to get the gate for you. It’s mysterious and builds up the mood for your experience there.

After you enter the door, you must go through the pebble stone court yard to get to the inside of the restaurant. You can also choose to sit outside. (We were relegated to an outdoor seat in the heat of Taipei’s humid Summer. Thank goodness it was drizzling rain and we were under an awning.)

Even though we sat outside on communal picnic style benches, the rain sounds pitter pattering was serene.

Xiang Se is good for date night or a first date because it’s frou frou to the point you kind of have to sit up straight and speak in a muted tone. (Places like Xiang Se and Jean George make you dial down the diva behaviour and dial up the classy you.)

2) [DRINK]

Zhanlu Coffee 湛廬咖啡 (http://www.zhanlu-coffee.com/)

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Alright, you’ve got a first date coming up. You’ve done the social media creeping so you know your date as much as they’ve portrayed themselves online, to the best of their profile making abilities and sensibilities. Whether you met them on the Internet or your friend is setting you guys up a blind date, you’ve still got your crazy sensors on full alert.

And what perfect place to have a first date than at Zhanlu Coffee, a bustling cafe to keep the crazy at bay. This way, if the date goes awry, you can let the background chatter drown out the boring about me introduction your date is spewing or you can make an excuse to leave early.

Zhanlu Coffee has several locations, but my favourite location is their Zhongxiao store, off the Zhongxiao Fuxing MRT station and literally outside Zhongxiao Fuxing Exit 3 as you come up the stairs. (Taipei subway commuters often refer to places by their MRT exits. It’s easier for us to meet this way. We also emphasize whether we’re meeting inside or street level.)

This particular location is on the 2nd floor of an office building so don’t be alarmed if you don’t see a store on the ground level. Taking the stairs is much faster than the elevator that never comes, unless you are the elderly, pregnant or have limited mobility. Like many cafes in Taiwan, there is a minimum order and at Zhanlu Coffee it’s one drink per customer.

What I enjoy about this location in particular is that a) there are plugs at the “bar” for when you’re working b) there’s a “bar” (and there are also couches and regular tables and for larger groups) and c) they take reservations.

The food here is not very good – I’ve tried to order a variety of different things and tell myself I like it because it’s $$ for what it is.

Where they really shine is their tea and coffee selection.

I like getting their hot tea set – it comes on a breakfast like tray, equipped with a small hour glass to let you know your tea is done steeping. (Gimmicky and I like it!) There’s brown sugar for sweetening your tea because hello white sugar get out of here! The looseleaf tea is served in a french press so there’s more work to finally get to that cup of brew.

3) [RELAX]
Grand View Resort Beitou 北投麗禧溫泉酒店 (http://www.gvrb.com.tw/)

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Two words: hot springs. (And high tea.)

Grand View Resort Beitou is my go-to for when I want a soak in some scalding hot mineral enhanced water and lie naked on hot stone (allegedly rejuvenating) rock bed. It’s not a cheap treat, but so worth it. One time I was waiting for the free shuttle and was offered some kind of sweet tea in the lobby by their staff. The air is ostensibly scented with some calming aroma and lit like a Swedish massage room. (More on their afternoon set later in this post.)

The first time I went, my former co-worker/office mom directed me there on my day off with a voucher she bought that was about to expire. (I obviously sent my co-workers videos of me chilling, maxing and relaxing, while they were at work.)

From the Beitou MRT, there are fleets of free resort shuttles waiting, since Beitou is know to be one of the Taipei’s hot spring capital. It may not seem obvious, but the bus stop to wait for these shuttles is right outside the subway exit as you make your way down the stairs. You don’t need to cross the street. And if you happen to spot a bunch of people loitering around a bus stand, you’re in the right place. To distinguish themselves, resort shuttles have their hotel name and logo on their luxury vans. They come fairly often, leaving every 10-15 minutes. You can read the bus stop sign to see if your resort is on there and the frequency at which it arrives.

If all else fails, you can always cab over to your resort, as they are a dime a dozen especially outside MRT stations waiting in a nice line for you to hop in.

Grand View Resort Beitou
offers day service and overnight accommodations as well, including public outdoor, public indoor and private hot spring houses within your hotel room.

I’ve only ever done indoor female hot spring facility – and it’s basically a glorified bathhouse with service like the Ritz.

For couples looking to celebrate anniversaries, engagements or general good spousal behaviour, there are rooms with private baths that draw mineral water from Mother Nature. If I wanted to ball out of control, I would book a room with a private hot spring tub that has an outdoor mountain view.

Inside the female public bath, there are pools of different temperatures and sizes. Unfortunately, the water is pretty still and it’s not like those “water spas” in Taiwan where you see the elderly enjoy immense water pressure hitting their lumbar from a projectile hose. The temperatures are extreme – from ice cold to scalding hot (38°C, 41°C). There’s also this hot stone bed, which is supposed to encourage healing energies. I laid there, naked (on my back and front), on a hot stone bed and let the air billowing in through the crevices of the bamboo shades dry my body. It was strangely zen.

You are given a locker to store your belongings and towels. Unlike the Japanese onsen culture, there’s no strict restriction from towels entering the water, but most people are altruistic enough to not contaminate the water. (And really, after a few minutes of being naked, you could really care less if an auntie is judging the size of your nipples cuz you’re way ahead of her and have already determined how many kids she’s breastfed with those jugs.)

By the pool, there are chairs for you to take a break if you’re feeling too heated. (I would suggest submerging your body slowly into the freezing cold water to cool down if you’re feeling faint.) A set up bar offers drinks and snacks – healthy things like fruit and more processed options like chocolate marshmallow cake things and crackers. Remember to keep hydrated as that hot spring water is FIRE to your skin. I was a little heartbroken they didn’t have a recycling bin for the water bottles – but this is Taiwan after all.

If you plan to spend an entire here dilly dallying, I highly suggest the afternoon high tea option in their cafe. They are quite strict with reservations and guests entering at a certain time so call ahead to ask for specifics. As for pricing, its NT$580/person on weekdays, NT$680/person on weekends with 10% service charge. 

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Compared to other high tea sets, I found the set at Grand View Resort Beitou to be well balanced between the savoury and the sweet – and quite affordable for those that don’t have a sugar daddy or poor freelance journalists that make their own money. The last time I had high tea was at The Ritz-Carlton in Toronto and I vaguely remembered how large the portions were. To fit the Taiwanese appetite, Grand View Resort Beitou portioned appropriately.

The set comes with fresh seasonal fruit, house made sweets and the savoury bites + your choice of coffee or tea + jams for your scone. I didn’t realize until after the table beside me did this, but you can take home what you don’t finish.

I was seated by the window with a great wrap around view of the green mountains – and the staff are courteous to pull down the shades if the sun starts bothering you. Never once did I feel rushed while I was enjoying my tea set and the service was polite and attentive. I also felt like I was worlds away from the stresses of Taipei, despite being a subway ride away. Lying naked on a hot stone bed in front of judgemental Taiwanese strangers must’ve helped.

4) [BE MERRY]
Hello Kitty Shabu Shabu (https://www.facebook.com/kitty.shabu)


Okay I’m gonna toot my own horn and re-post my article here about Taipei’s Hello Kitty Shabu Shabu restaurant for NBC News. 

Hello Kitty Hot Pot Restaurant Gives Visitors Warm Welcome in Taiwan

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I feel like eating things that are Hello Kitty branded is one of those things that you can say you’ve done – and judge it after. It’s also safe to say, a majority of female Millennials loved this Sanrio kitty one time or another.

It’s excessively oozing cuteness, but the quality of the ingredients they use really inches out competition of hot pot restaurants in similar price range.

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If you visit their Facebook page, you can see that reservations open a month in advance. If you’ve got patience and a strong will, you can also try going right when the shop opens and lining up for walk-in service.

Worried that it’s Summer and hot pot isn’t suitable for the weather? This is Taiwan – we eat hot pot 365 days a year, even when it’s 41°C and 70% humidity out. That’s what air conditioning is for.

5) [HAVE FUN]
Biking To Danshui


I don’t want to just throw out a suggestion like going to the movies, even though I know many couples enjoy their theatre time too. Since we’re in Taipei, it’s always nice to feel like you’re not in the city during the weekends or on your day off. With my suggestion of biking from a certain MRT station to Danshui, couples can enjoy the breezy night time stroll along Danshui’s old street after it gets dark, you can chill by the water and look across the water at the lights and have some Taiwanese street food. 

My former coworkers and I had a great time biking to Danshui from the Gaundu MRT station. (Ok, I’ll fess up – we never made it that far since the queue for the ferry to Danshui was Olympic sized. We still had a lovely afternoon of outdoor activity and made it to Danshui via subway for a dinner of street food.)

The thing about Taipei and New Taipei’s MRT system is that there is a UBike station outside of every single station. You can download an app that shows bike availability, parking availability, closest UBike station etc. However, for most of these biking friendly areas, there usually are bike rental shops outside the station.

We rented bikes for the entire afternoon from a shop outside of the Guandu MRT station for I think NT$150. One thing to keep in mind is that a lot of these bike shops have wonky bikes – in my experience of renting bikes twice. Personally, I would stick with UBikes. I’m a daily UBike rider and I’ve never had any problems with the pedals, brakes or speed changers. (UBikes also have a basket upfront for you to place your backpack or water in.)

There are some tiny hills you may have to ride up, but nothing a UBike can’t handle.

Here’s the route we took for Guandu – > Danshui:
-Meet at Guandu MRT station on the red line
(Surprisingly there wasn’t any convenience stores around so we weren’t able to get bottles of water until a 10 minute ride away from the station.)
-There are UBike stations BEHIND the MRT exit and there are also bike rental shops once you foray away from the station.
-Looking like lost tourists, we were pointed in a few directions by different people. In the end, an old Grandpa riding his bike led us the entire way until we reached the bike path. He was laughing at us while zig zagging his bike through oncoming traffic.

The easiest way to get to the route is the follow the RED LANTERNS strung in the street. These lanterns lead to the very large and apparent Guandu Temple.

If you’re looking for water or snacks, you’re in luck. There are convenience stores all along the street and smaller mom and pop shops selling temple prayer necessities.

Once you get to Guandu Temple, it’ll be very easy to spot the bike path. (There’s really nothing else except but the temple, open road and bike path and a horse farm. Choose wisely.)

To get from Guandu Temple to and onto the coastal bike path that gets you to Bali, you need to first cross a bridge with lots of traffic. It reminded me a lot of SF since the bridge cables were fire engine red and you could see this cloudy/mist floating on the water.

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Take caution if you’re riding with children. Although the path on the bridge is separated from the traffic, it’s horrendously loud. Traffic zooms by and you’re riding on metal sheets that makes loud noises. It’s about a 7 minute journey on this anxiety inducing part, but once you’re passed the bridge, most of the riding is serene and won’t have smog coming at your face.

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The rest of the path goes along the water and is nicely shaded with some large trees. One thing is that there are families with children riding, who may just stop abruptly and can be a little dangerous for speed devils who want to really pump their quads like a spin class at 6 a.m. Just remember that we’re all trying to have a good time and enjoy the outdoor air! Relax. Take it easy. Have fun!

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5 Things To Do With Girlfriends in Taipei

If your gaggle of female friends is anything like mine, it doesn’t really matter where you are or what you do, your collective group of gal pals will still have a great time being obnoxious and embarrassingly loud together.

That being said, it doesn’t mean we don’t enjoy having an itinerary to mosey through, slotting in necessary naps and digestion time from overindulging.


Below are my 5 Taipei suggestions for when the girls are in town and you’re feeling the #NoNewFriends vibe:

1) [EAT]
Aquatics Addiction Development 上引水產 (www.addiction.com.tw)

It’s tough to just list one place especially for a vibrant city like Taipei. I once hosted girlfriends in NYC and we literally had 15 small meals in an afternoon. Women love sharing and grazing.

Keeping that peckish eating habit in mind, I’d suggest Aquatics Addiction Development, a Taipei fish market that was converted into a consumer friendly place a few years ago.

Whenever I take out of town guests there, I describe it as a “wonderland” but they counter and tell me it looks like a hipster joint. I carefully choose wonderland because there are so many facets to the venue.

In the center, under the string patio lights there’s an outdoor grill bar, complete with a hot stone grill as the focal point of the table.

Inside, the standup sushi bar has excellent, fast service. I’ve never experienced massive wait times, either. It’s probably a good reason why tourists from Hong Kong seem to flock there.

The grocery section is packed with ready-to-eat sliced sashimi, sushi, lunch boxes, salads, and even fried foods. My first sighting of zucchinis was here! Green and yellow and I paid an arm and some of my rent money for it, but if I were going to eat something that reminded me of home, it’d be quality zucchini. I also like getting the grilled shrimp here to-go. You can also get steak, cheese, frozen and fresh seafood inside the grocery section.

There’s also a wine bar, oyster shack, juice bar and flower shop that always looks empty. Here for the shrimp, not the rosé. Clearly. (At the juice bar, I like getting a cold and freshly hacked coconut for NT$100.)

Aquatics Addiction Development is off the Xingtian Temple MRT station, but still a good 20 minute walk North.

There are a few ways to get there:

i) take the MRT and then walk
Don’t be scared of this walk, even if you pass by funeral row – funeral flowers, funeral homes and everything after-life care. On the corner will be Xingtian Temple so you know you’re heading in the right direction.

ii) take the MRT and then UBike over
This is probably more suitable for locals who have an EasyCard that will allow them to rent a Ubike. I always park outside, trusting that humanity ensures I have a bike to ride back to the station.

iii) take the MRT and cab over after
I’ve had a few cab drivers be in a huff about how close it is, though if you’re clearly with a group of tourists, they are less inclined to be classic Taiwanese passive aggressive.

iv) cab 
Taiwan cab meters start at NT$70 and are relatively cheap compared to cities like NYC or Toronto. If you’ve got a large group, why not save yourself the hassle and just get chauffeured over? A 20 minute cab ride can run you around $7USD and no tip is required.

v) walk
Stretch those legs and turn on your Google map.

2) [DRINK]
WA-SHU 和酒 (https://www.facebook.com/washutaipei)

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I’m a social drinker so I don’t know anything about dranks and I never pretend it’s my realm. However, I have preferences and won’t apologize for my tastebuds.

My first time at WA-SHU was past midnight on a weekday, after we already had a few cocktails at a very trendy bar nearby. I was with a drinks columnist, who knew exactly what she wanted to order, but I didn’t feel silly just telling the bartender what flavours I liked. (And that’s how I continued to order.)

The Japanese owner and his robin sidekick were impressive in their drink making skills. Everything was so precise yet agile.

The bar’s backsplash is basically a wall made up of multiple refrigerators with clear glass sliding doors. Bottles of in-house distilled and infused choices for cocktails were lined up beside each other. It was mesmerizing.

My standard drink there is a yuzu cocktail. We left around 2 a.m., just in time to cab away for an early morning snack.

3) [RELAX]
Mingyi 明易足體養生館 (http://www.mingyi.tw/)

This is my go-to massage place. I preface this suggestion by telling people that the body massage hurts like a mofo, but leaves your muscles loosey goosey and you fall into a deep slumber once you hit the hay. (Like a natural muscle relaxant – cuz we all know how divine those are.) I’m absolutely not joking about how much it hurts. If you’re a regular foam roller, think of that type of pain all over your body…non-stop. (But it hurts so good!)

Mingyi’s flagship location is right off the Dongmen MRT station – about a 2 minute walk away, which is another reason why I love it. I first tried out this place with my girlfriend JK and it remains one of our fav activity after a leisurely ladies who lunch afternoon when she’s back in town.

It’s a relatively new spot and the interior is clean, bright and welcoming. When you first enter, you change out of street shoes and into slippers. You have the choice of a short yukata top and shorts if you’re doing a body massage. Lockers are also available for you to leave your belongings in.

You may see a lot of celebrity and athlete photos all over the store – aside from the owner loving sports, I think Taiwan is all about having klout to legitimize their biz, which Mingyi absolutely doesn’t need.

You can choose between a foot massage, half body or full body. I fluctuate between foot and half body depending on how poorly my posture has been. If you choose half body, you can tell them which areas to focus on. The foot massage comes with a 10 minute shoulder rub while your feet are soaking.

The only thing about Mingyi that I wish they had was a lounge where you could chill out a bit before they hurry you out. In polite Taiwanese fashion, your masseuse is waiting by the door to escort you out before clocking in for their next customer. I always feel like my zen-o-meter is recharged and then all of a sudden they are aggressively shoving me out the door like a Tokyo train station rush hour.

Reservations are not necessary, but suggested during busy times like weekends. Cash only so don’t roll up thinking plastic will do.

4) [BE MERRY]
Hike Elephant Mountain

Now, we could continue to be gluttonous or choose to do some physical activity. (You can also combine the two.)

To get in a sweat sesh (read: light sweat sesh), hike Elephant Mountain. If you’ve ever hiked Grouse in Vancouver, think the opposite.

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Elephant Mountain is quite appropriate for light physical activity and even the elderly or young people with aching knees. The trail is equipped with shallow steps so there’s no need to get your trainers muddy. Once you reach a certain level, you see the entire view of Taipei. Don’t forget to bring an #InstagramHusband up there with you girls – or a selfie stick – cuz what is the point of doing something if no one gets to see what you’ve accomplished?

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Getting to the trail is easy peasy – take the MRT. Once you get to Xiang Shan station on the red line, exit and you will see signs pointing you toward the trail.

Don’t be like me and JK – we went off the beaten path, got lost and followed a group of middle school girl scouts who led us down the mountain WITHOUT A CELL PHONE AND JUST A PLAIN PAPER MAP.

The hike takes less than 45 minutes and will motivate you to climb faster, if you want to eat more throughout the day. Now go put on those Lulu pants, your flyknits and assemble a messy bun/”don’t care hair” to go leisurely hike up this mountain!

5) [HAVE FUN]
Street Shopping in Ximending

Shopping is considered fun, right? If you’ve got friends who still like the old fashioned way of purchasing goods, and not spending the entire day on Amazon or Taobao, then shopping will sure pump some adrenaline into the body.

If the gal pals are visiting from North America, they probably won’t want to hit up big box shopping malls like Taipei 101 or Shin Kong Mitsukoshi and see the same brands that are cheaper at home. (H&M is a prime example.)

I’d suggest street shopping. For street shopping, Ximending is your best bet.

If I’m thinking of stocking up on beauty products, I like to head to Ximending before the kids get out of class on a weekday. (Ximending is known to be a high school hang out so if you’re an adult and like feeling aged, feel free to hop on by – but don’t be creepy and stay too long.) There’s Etude House, Skinfoods, Innisfree and most of all recognizable korean skincare brands all within a relative radius. (It irks me to the Nth degree when I have to go to multiple areas to get my holy grail products.)  There are also a lot of accessories and clothing to browse. Whenever I return to Toronto, my girlfriends request these bizarre telephone cord hair ties that they swear by and this is where you can find them.

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Chronicles of Taipei

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Hi Internet Lovers & Haters, Friends & Strangers,

I will be starting a series dedicated to Taipei on this site. Whenever a friend visits Taiwan, I have to go back into my inbox and find my list of suggestions for their Taipei rendezvous – I figure why not share it here. Whether it be what to eat (duh, stereotype of Taipei), what to do, where to get massages, Taipei on a budget etc. I will be sharing my own experience here.

I will tell you that there is a world outside of Din Tai Fung and that after a year of living above a convenience store, even a tasty 7-11 onigri will start tasting like plastic. (But I will teach you how to take the sleeve off that onigri cuz that takes forever to figure out.)

When a visiting friend asked where I had been in Asia, I told him I don’t really like to travel. (Usually, I like to immerse myself and explore a city really well – on foot, by bike, gazing out the train window like I’m in some music video. I’m sentimental like that, an Aquarius loyalty trait.)

Anyway, I know my Dad has my website on his bookmark, so Hi, Dad!

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Asian Diaspora Toronto

Two optometrists marry each other: The Future Is 20/20

Two optometrists marry each other. #FutureIs20/20

(Photo by: Amy Chyan.)

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Asian Diaspora From The Kitchen

Canadian Thanksgiving 2013

Canadian Thanksgiving 2013

This year, I spent Thanksgiving in Toronto. Like clockwork, the weather was amazing. The bluest of skies and fluffiest of clouds. This was my contribution to dinner.

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Asian Diaspora

My Grandma

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I love this photo of my grandparents in their older living room.

I’m most thankful that my Grandma taught me how to be a lady. She loved combing my hair and always held my hand as we walked to the salon. Whether she was getting her hair did or getting a facial, I always had something done too, like a simple double hoop braid a la Princess Leia.

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Michael Jordan and The Couch

The second couch we ever bought was for our family room. It was a blue and white striped pull out couch, that had giant pillows we would always toss onto the carpet. It was either from Leon’s or Ikea.

We used the pillows as pieces to jump on, avoiding the carpet lava.

We used them as pieces to build forts, in the nook between the wall and the couch’s far arm.

The couch had a lot of miscellaneous stains. With four kids under the age of 13, my mom let it slide. In the heat of summer, with the air conditioning blasting, the fabric was cool to touch. In the winter, Mother&Co. would fold a blanket over the seats, hoping to conceal the stains.

The nook between the wall and the couch’s arm became my personal spot. It was littered with a medley of cushions of hodgepodge origins. Whenever my mom or cousins overflowed the couch, I retreated to my corner.

The corner was mostly used for those times when I realllllllly wanted to stay up to watch the end of a movie or a basketball game, but was too tired and needed to doze off. I was often woken up in a daze and re-capped at breakfast the endings.

My mom’s a big NBA fan and we would watch most games together as a family. Michael Jordan was one of her favourite players and my brother was almost named Michael. (Her least favourite player was John Stockton, who often played against The Bulls. She also praised Grant Hill for not having tattoos.)

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Asian Diaspora

Plastic Surgery = Racial Transformation. What?!

I came across an article on BuzzFeed with the heading “When Does Plastic Surgery Become Racial Transformation?” You can read it: http://bit.ly/10Je6DJ

The sub title reads “Leo Jiang grew up in an English industrial town, emotionally scarred by bullies who taunted him about being Chinese. A few years and tens of thousands of dollars later, he’s not really Chinese anymore.”

I have a problem with this.

Actually, I have mixed feelings, but the sub heading is awful. How does one become “not Chinese”, merely by looks? Simply from a higher nose bridge and an all too obvious double eyelid created by surgical knives, one loses the race their DNA programs them to be?

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Asian Diaspora From The Kitchen

From The Kitchen: Ciabatta Sandwich with Doritos

Sandwich & Doritos
Sandwich & Doritos

I made a sandwich because I really wanted to eat Doritos.

Roasted chicken, turkey, havarti, red onion, sliced tomatos, romaine hearts, honey mustard, olive oil. On a toasted multi grain cibatta.

Sandwiches must be one of the first things I learned how to make as a kid. No knife or sharp objects needed. Void of the stove or any other dangerous appliances. Bread and whatever you want in the middle — pb&j, cream cheese, pb&honey, pb&banana or the assortment of meat. You know, kid flavours that didn’t involve the can opener. We used a butter spreader, rounded and kid safe, too.

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Asian Diaspora

When We Gazed At The Moon

Today is this year’s Mid-Autumn Fest day, calculated through the lunar calendar. Families celebrate by having moon cake, pomelo, tea and gather together to marvel at the moon.

In New York, I would commute to Chinatown all the way from Columbia just to get a moon cake. (That’s a 2 hour commute, there and back.) It’s not about the pastry, but rather the nice feelings it stirs up. But eating moon cake alone is sad. Like binge drinking bad boxed wine at 2 in the morning sad.

Whenever we have moon cake, I have flash backs of when my cousin and I would take every holiday as an excuse to celebrate as seriously as we knew how to. If there was a ritual, we were going to do it. (Making dumplings for Chinese New Year and putting real money in the meat mixture? Gross and the most unsanitary, but heck yes. Having a gingerbread house competition on Christmas Eve? High-fructose corn syrup and Bulk Barn, you’re welcome for our business. The list goes on. We are just celebrators, plain and simple.)

There was one particular year, we took the phrase “賞月“, which means marveling at the moon, literally.